I escaped life for a blissful 4-day getaway and found that when I had so much other stuff to focus on, the Narcissist was the last thing on my mind – and that was the absolute best feeling. I had a realization over this weekend as I spent time reconnecting with an old friend, that part […]
Playing with Snapchat and discovered this fun new filter. It reminded me of all the endless nights I slept alone while the Narcissist stayed up until 4:00 am playing Destiny with all of his online friends. Creating a “clan”, and having over a hundred online friends to talk to and message with was the perfect […]
While I have connected with many songs throughout this process, I have to say my girl Gwen has created my theme song… makes me wonder if Gavin was a narcissist… seeing that he was a rock star and sleeping with the nanny, my guess is yes!! “And now I’m me without You, Things about to […]
I am literally experiencing withdrawals from my Narcissist. I mean, mostly because I feel like a complete whack job who is a normally functioning human being one day, and then literally using up all of my self control the next day to not show up on his door step in tears. I imagine that this […]
So, I tried to “do the right thing” and warn the Narcissist’s new girlfriend about what she was getting herself into. I sent her the link to this blog and suggested she read it. If I could go back in time and get a warning about what my life could look like with this man, […]
Narcissists. The granddaddy of all crazy-makers. Narcissists cannot empathize with anyone, meaning they cannot relate to your feelings. They only feel their own wants and needs. They are emotionally stunted, like a perpetually demanding two-year-old. It is always about them. However, they can be extremely charming and charismatic, as they have learned how to be the greatest […]
Nothing says “I am a Narcissist” quite like a fully modified Jeep Wrangler complete with the word “ATTITUDE” straight across the hood. The Narcissist was always obsessed with his image, and this included everything from his clothes, his hair, his weight, his wife, his dog, and very specifically the vehicle he drives. Absolutely everything could be seen […]
It’s been 2 months since I moved out of the house. The paperwork has been filed (at immediate request of the narcissist because he can’t feel like he is stuck and not moving forward) but the court date has not been finalized yet. Technically I am still married to the narcissist… married for 7 years […]
As the title of this blog would imply, I am in the midst of a divorce from a Narcissist. I think that somewhere deep down I always knew my soon to be ex-husband was a Narcissist, but I never realized all of the ways that it would play out to make my divorce such entertaining […]
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