Sometimes you just gotta find the humor in a crazy situation… and sometimes you have to own up to all the glaring 60 ft Red Flags you ignored in your quest to believe that Prince Charming really was just charming and not freaking crazy. So for all of your reading pleasure, here are the things […]
It dawned on me the other day that I have made a ton of progress since I moved out of the house and walked away from the Narcissist for good. It has just been about 3 months, and I can finally see the results of the baby steps I have been making over the past […]
Most resources will tell you that it takes a person 6-8 attempts to leave an abusive relationship. There are many reasons why victims don’t leave: Fear: A person may be afraid of what will happen if they decide to leave the relationship. Believing Abuse is Normal: A person may not know what a healthy relationship looks like, […]
As I continue to heal from the Narcissist more and more of the memories that I have pushed away are starting to bubble up to the surface. I guess my brain and my heart are finally ready to start dealing with some of them, now that the constant flow of new trauma has finally come […]
I had written all this down previously, and just read through it again and thought it was worth sharing. Originally I wanted to write a book with my story… but I found that letting out these stories through my blog felt like I was actually getting it off my chest… letting go of the weight, […]
Narcissistic supply is a type of admiration, interpersonal support or sustenance drawn by an individual from his or her environment and essential to their self-esteem. This is essential the fuel that keeps a Narcissist going. They can get it from their partners, friends, career, social status, online groups, etc. This admiration or ‘supply’ is essentially what […]
I recently started reading “From Charm to Harm” by Greg Zaffuto and so far it has been helping me decode the Narcissist and unravel from all the gas-lighting and crazy-making! He also has a great blog… check out his latest post below. From my Book – From Charm to Harm and Everything else in Between […]
I got into an interesting conversation in the comments over at Chump Lady’s Blog and it got me thinking about the Narcissist and money. As with most topics around the Narcissist, I started doing some research and have found some things that make so much sense about why the Narcissist was the way he was with money. Money […]
Most days, I feel like I am at a point where I am stronger than ever before. I feel that I am finally seeing things clearly. I feel like I have started healing the things that hurt deep inside. I feel like most of the time I am optimistic and happy and complete… but I […]
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