As we reach the end of 2016, which has been a year of immense highs (and lows), extreme change, and so much growth for me I have been reflecting back and thinking ahead about what I want to achieve for myself in 2017. I keep landing on a consistent theme of loving how empowered I […]
Life with The Narcissist had me on a constant quest for perfection. I was living in a state of always feeling like I wasn’t enough in some way, shape or form. I wasn’t pretty enough, thin enough, sexy enough, fit enough, loving enough, affectionate enough, smart enough… you name it, I felt it. No matter […]
A while back I was fuming because I found out that on top of everything else The Narcissist also screwed me out of a significant amount of money through our divorce. I sat on the information for a while and after the anger and frustration of it all subsided I decided that I was just […]
The Amber Heard and Johnny Depp abuse story has been all over the media for the past few months, and has brought about a whole lot of conversations on domestic violence. People have been saying everything from claims that Amber was lying about the abuse, to the other end of the spectrum where people were protesting […]
If you haven’t read it already, I highly encourage you to go back and read about The Christmas Tree Incident… which was for all intents and purposes the breaking point for my marriage to The Narcissist. That event happened just about this time last year. From where I stand today, it feels like a different […]
Today would be my 8 year wedding anniversary with The Narcissist. This time of year with the anniversary and the holidays and all of it certainly reminds me of him and makes me reflect back on the experience of it all a bit. I’ve realized that one of the most substantial and empowering parts of […]
Thanksgiving was the first major holiday I have experienced post-Narcissist. Just about this time last year I was hitting my lowest of low points. I was in such a place of depression and emptiness I couldn’t even see a way out of it. Little did I know that I would soon hit my breaking point […]
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