My Final Post

I’ve been doing a great deal of reflecting over the past weeks since receiving the anonymous letter about The Narcissist in the mail. At first, that letter launched me into action. I wanted to bring down The Narcissist, I wanted to help that young girl, and I wanted to help any future girls who could […]

The Narcissist Seduced a 15-year-old

Since I posted about the anonymous letter I received, I wanted to provide my readers with the same “closure” I have found on this story. After receiving the letter, I was obviously worried for a few reasons – worried that this could be a scheme for The Narcissist to make contact with me somehow, and […]

#LoveBetter this Valentine’s Day

I can’t speak highly enough of the One Love Foundation and the content that they share online to educate about abusive relationships and how to help loved ones who are in an abusive relationship. For Valentine’s Day this year they have launched a campaign hoping to teach people what healthy love looks like. This is […]


Some of you may have seen this all over social media today: “If all the women (and men) who have been sexually harassed or assaulted wrote “Me too.” as a status, we might give people a sense of the magnitude of the problem. #MeToo ” I felt the need to speak up on this topic […]

Your Vulnerability is not a Weakness

I’ve been thinking a lot lately about being vulnerable, especially when it comes to starting a new relationship (with a friend or a lover.) After surviving Narcissistic Abuse and Domestic Violence I’ve found that learning to be vulnerable again (and feeling comfortable doing so) has actually been very difficult for me. So what about surviving abuse makes vulnerability feel […]