This blog captures the story of my divorce, and gives a glimpse of the 8 years of crazy that I survived to get here. I intend for this to be both therapeutic for myself and hopefully a cautionary yet sometimes hilarious tale for others.

I’m hoping that writing all of this down will help prevent someone from getting here… or at the very least provide some good laughs.


Womens Law – Find out everything you could possibly want to know about how to leave an abusive relationship and protect yourself and your family.

National Domestic Violence Hotline – 24 hour access to help for victims of domestic violence

Love Is Respect – How to help a friend or loved one who may be in a domestic abuse situation

After Narcissistic Abuse – Facebook Group – A support group for those recovering from Narcissistic Abuse

Out of the FOG – Help for family members and loved ones of people with personality disorders

DrugRehab.com -Resources for those who are substance abusers and also facing domestic violence.


Books I’ve Read and Recommend:

From Charm to Harm

Disarming the Narcissist

Psychopath Free

Codependent No More